TL;DR
- Emails can “work” while trust quietly degrades
- Missing DKIM and DMARC leads to spam and impersonation
- Email reliability is an infrastructure decision, not a tool setting
Assuming email “just works” is enough
For many companies, email is considered secure as long as messages go out and replies come back. DKIM and DMARC are rarely questioned, because nothing appears broken. From the outside, everything seems fine.
We usually discover the issue much later — when emails start landing in spam, or when the company’s domain is used to impersonate them. At that point, the problem isn’t theoretical anymore. Trust has already been affected.
The mistake isn’t technical. It’s assuming that email reliability takes care of itself. Email is infrastructure. It works quietly in the background, until it doesn’t. And when it fails, the impact shows up where it hurts most: client communication and reputation.
This is why ignoring DKIM and DMARC is rarely harmless — even when email appears to work.
Why DKIM and DMARC are almost always ignored
Email authentication is one of those topics everyone assumes is handled by someone else. The hosting provider, Microsoft or Google, the previous agency, internal IT — someone must have taken care of it. In reality, it often falls between responsibilities.
Another reason is that the problem stays invisible for a long time. Emails are sent, replies arrive, invoices go through. As long as nothing obvious breaks, there is no reason to question the setup. DKIM and DMARC don’t fail loudly. They fail quietly.
There’s also a widespread assumption that “secure by default” exists for email. That because a service is professional or paid, protection is included automatically. It rarely is. Email security requires explicit decisions and configuration, not just a checkbox.
As a result, DKIM and DMARC are not actively ignored. They are simply never owned. And when nobody owns them, they are almost always missing or incomplete.
When email trust starts to erode
The first visible symptom is often simple: emails that used to arrive normally start landing in spam. Not everywhere, not all at once — just enough to create doubt. Follow-ups go unanswered. Important messages need to be resent.
More damaging is what happens in parallel. Without proper DKIM and DMARC, a domain can be impersonated. Clients receive emails that look legitimate but aren’t. Even if no major incident occurs, trust takes a hit. People become cautious. They hesitate before replying or clicking.
What makes this hard to manage is that the damage doesn’t point clearly to its cause. The website works. The email account works. Nothing looks “broken”. Yet the company’s reputation with mail providers — and with clients — is slowly degraded.
At that stage, fixing the configuration helps, but it doesn’t reset everything instantly. Email trust is built over time, and once it’s weakened, it takes effort to restore. This is why ignoring DKIM and DMARC is rarely a neutral choice.
What usually works better in practice
The companies that avoid these issues treat email as part of their infrastructure, not as a side effect of using a tool. Someone clearly owns the setup, even if the technical work is delegated.
In practice, this means a simple but explicit approach: DKIM is properly configured, DMARC is enabled, and the policy is reviewed over time. Not once, not “when there’s a problem”, but as part of normal maintenance. Nothing exotic — just intentional.
It also means not assuming that providers will handle everything by default. Hosting platforms and email services give you the tools, not the decisions. When those decisions are made deliberately, email reliability becomes predictable instead of fragile.
What we consistently see is that this clarity removes uncertainty. Emails arrive where they should. Domains are harder to misuse. And when something does go wrong, it’s easier to identify and fix, because the foundations are understood.
How to think about email reliability next time
Email is easy to underestimate because it’s quiet when it works. There’s no dashboard warning you that trust is slowly degrading, and no alert when configuration is incomplete. That’s exactly why it deserves to be treated as infrastructure.
A useful way to think about DKIM and DMARC is this: they don’t make email “more secure”, they make it more predictable. They tell mail providers who you are, what you authorize, and what should happen when something looks wrong. Without that clarity, providers make their own decisions — rarely in your favor.
This also shifts the question from “Is email working?” to “Is email trusted?”. Those are not the same thing. Reliability is about outcomes over time, not about whether today’s message was delivered.
When email is approached with that mindset, DKIM and DMARC stop being technical afterthoughts. They become part of how a company protects its communication, its reputation, and the relationship it has with its clients.
Conclusion
DKIM and DMARC are rarely ignored on purpose. They’re overlooked because email appears to work — until trust starts to slip. Spam issues, impersonation, and reputation problems are usually the consequence of decisions that were never explicitly made.
Treating email as infrastructure changes that dynamic. When ownership is clear and authentication is handled deliberately, reliability becomes predictable instead of fragile. It’s not about adding complexity, but about removing uncertainty.
If this situation sounds familiar, feel free to reach out.
Leave a Reply